Call this a case of desperation and you won’t be far from right, it may appear to many as an inhumane thing to do but for him, ‘a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do’.

Captured in the men version of confessions in the Facebook inbox of David Papa Bondze-Mbir is quite a shocking revelation of how a man secretly recorded all ‘sex sessions’ he had with his wife in every part of his home and sold it to an online pornography site in order to make some money to pay off his debt.

The kitchen, hall, bedroom, just almost every area inside his home had hidden cameras installed on the blind side of his wife and this had gone on for several months.

He wanted variety and hence will record also, separate videos of his naked wife in the bedroom or bathroom, he got videos of himself alone also. This guy appeared to make a great deal of money from his transactions; a week got him US $5,000 for two different submissions.

““I needed to make extra money to pay a debt. I couldn’t afford anymore bank loans, so I signed on an online pornography shop, to supply the agency with home-made porn, every week: US $5,000 a week, for every Two (2), different submissions. I planted a secret camera in our home (bedroom, kitchen, hall and washroom) to record my wife and I during sex, and also, whenever she’s in the bathroom or bedroom, naked. I do my own private recordings, also for a fee online. I have sold over 247 videos of my wife and I, online. I am just hoping someday, it doesn’t backfire in my face. I had to do something to pay off that debt.” his post read.

Here’s a list of confessions from men as produced from the inbox of David Papa Bondze-Mbir:

#WorstThingDone (Part 2)

1. “My wife criticized and humiliated me in public. She poked fun at me, and soundly debased me. That was when, in my defense, I told her, I regret ever marrying her, in the presence of her very close friends. She did not talk to me for months. We’re in good terms now.”

2. “We had been married for Five (5) years without any kids. She was medically fine, but I think I had low sperm count. And, looking at how my wife, always was praying for a kid, and demanding too much sex from me – in order to get pregnant, I had to think of something to stop the frustration. I traveled with her for some weeks, got a very handsome, intelligent young man, willing to do anything for a few thousands of dollars, to visit my wife in our hotel room, while I drugged her to sleep, to have sex with her. She did not know about this plan.

Prior to that, I got the guy tested for any form/kind of disease, to be sure he was clean. He came over every late evening and left after every Two (2) rounds of unprotected sex, for a week. I made sure my wife always woke up next to me, also naked. She was happy every morning she woke up wet. She got pregnant a few weeks after that.”

3. “The woman I am married to, in Accra, is my second wife, but she has no idea. I visit the first wife and the kids during weekends. She knows not of the lady in Accra. I have built houses for both, everybody is happy.”

4. “I had to fake to be interested in Church and prayers and speaking in tongues. I even practiced chastity. I quit drinking and smoking, just because the woman I was interested in marrying, preferred a man like that. I got back to myself, Two (2) months after marriage. Lol! I couldn’t act it anymore. She still thinks I’ve changed. Lol!”

5. “I used my Ex-wife as a placeholder. I was married to her for Six (6) years, because she got pregnant, and would have aborted the pregnancy if I had not married her. I was not in love with her. I just loved the sex. So I held on to her for a while until my baby was born, and somebody new came along. I don't like to be alone, Dave, alone with the wrong person… And, also without a relationship, so instead of putting my Ex-wife out of her misery and ending it, I strung her along until I met my current wife, who is my taste in love, to replace her.”

6. “My wife was supposed to be attending a funeral in Kumasi. I called her around 8:00 AM that morning to be sure of where she had reached, since leaving home Four (4) hours before. After our talk on phone, she forgot to end the call. I could hear every conversation she was having at the other end of the phone. I overheard a man call her “Babe”, give her a peg or kiss, and then asked, ‘Who was to book the hotel room’. That was when I started recording their voices. When my wife got to the hotel receptionist and was welcomed, the name of the hotel informed me about her whereabouts. She was still in Accra.

I recorded them professing love for each other, and also got to know they had been seeing each other for a while. I heard them have sex. When my wife returned home the following day, she still claimed she was in Kumasi for the funeral. I held on to the recording until the following Sunday, on our way to Church, when I had to play back the recording in the car for her listening pleasure. The worst thing I will forever be doing is to blackmail my wife with this piece of evidence – to get whatever I want from her in this marriage.”

7. “Signing on my wife’s death. She had been in coma for over Six (6) months, and doctors were advising me to consider taking her off life support. We had Three (3) young kids together, and the thought of raising the children all by myself, scared me. The thought of having to spend the rest of my life, without her, terrified me. But at the end, I had a decision to make, and I took her off life-support. I have never been able to live with myself, since.”

8. “When I had to intentionally drive my Ex-wife crazy, in order to divorce her and marry the woman of my dreams. My regret though, is that she was never able to recover. She’s still at the psychiatric hospital. That is my biggest regret in life. She did me no wrong. Her only crime was to be in love with me, while I had grown out of that same love.”

9. “I needed to make extra money to pay a debt. I couldn’t afford anymore bank loans, so I signed on an online pornography shop, to supply the agency with home-made porn, every week: US $5,000 a week, for every Two (2), different submissions. I planted a secret camera in our home (bedroom, kitchen, hall and washroom) to record my wife and I during sex, and also, whenever she’s in the bathroom or bedroom, naked. I do my own private recordings, also for a fee online. I have sold over 247 videos of my wife and I, online. I am just hoping someday, it doesn’t backfire in my face. I had to do something to pay off that debt.”

10. “My wife loves massages, and she’s always wanted me to learn how to – so I could massage her at home. She’d always complained, also, about how I am often not able to make her orgasm, during sex. So on her birthdays, I give her the blindfold present. I would blindfold her for a few hours, at a hotel, handcuff her, and invite a massage therapist over to thoroughly massage her entire muscles and body. I f**k her intensely, and then allow the massage therapist, also to f**k her till she screams my name in orgasm. It’s always on her birthdays that she’s truly pleased with me. She enjoys the whole mystery of it. She’s yet to find out that I am not the one who massages and makes her orgasm on her birthdays.”

11. “I am an investor in the open, but a pimp behind closed doors. I have over 37 call-girls working in my establishment. And each of these girls, I have slept with. It’s company policy to test the strengths of these girls in bed, before hiring them. Some are married, others are not. My wife does not know about my other job. That’s my worst secret. The pimping job brings in a lot of money… That’s why I am still at it.”

12. “I change my wife’s medical prescriptions with something else to make her forget her suspicions of me. I am a doctor, so I can easily manipulate her prescription bottles with different drugs, to sway her attention off me – whenever I am having a few affairs.”

13. “My wife’s sister gets on my nerves whenever she’s at our home. She behaves as if she owns the house too, simply because I am married to her sister. She would be in my bedroom, and be talking with her sister when I want to go and sleep. She would hijack my TV remote, and wouldn’t allow anyone to watch anything she doesn’t want to watch. She can even insult me, sometimes, in the presence of my wife, and all my wife does is to smile and budge me into thinking, her sister was just ‘joking’. The day I had had enough, I stole a chunk of my wife’s most valuable jewelries, including her engagement ring, to sell on the black market, the day her sister left our house. I invested the money into something I was doing. She blamed her sister for stealing her jewelries, and banned her from ever coming to our house again. She’s not talked to her in years.”

14. “I was married for 18 years and have Three (3) wonderful kids. My wife and I had about Eight (8) to 10 pretty good years before I began to realize that I wasn't really in love with her, and maybe never was. For years, our house help and I began a relationship. I had always been attracted to her, and I acted on it. Until Two (2) years ago, we had carried the relationship from some very exciting sex to a very strong emotional relationship. She finally said the words, that we should not see each other, intimately anymore, at least until I decided on what to do with my situation at home. I agreed.

My wife and I have been trying to ‘fix’ our marriage for a while and it just wasn’t working for me, and she didn't know about my affair. Neither does our pastor, who recently told her he thought the marriage was over. I am deeply in love with our house help, and told her so during our last encounter (after we decided to call it off). She told me she loved me, also. My wife and I became so distant. I did not find her attractive in the least - and we had not had sex for months. When we did it took all I had to get through it.
My heart did hurt badly for the woman (house help) I love. She was putting up a strong front and moving on. Even seeing other men. She said in a year, if we were both available, maybe we could try to build a real, honest relationship. My three kids, who are my world, were trapped in between. I didn't know what to do. I loved another women, though I still cared for my wife; I just didn't love her anymore, and was not sure I could again. I made these mistakes, but I believe I was/am truly in love for the very first time in my life.

When my wife died, I felt she was killed. Because she wasn’t sick or involved in any accident. She just died! And even though I may not have any proof, I suspect our house help. I feel this is the worst thing ever done, because if I had not started this affair, our help wouldn’t have felt the urgency – to probably act. As I said, I have no proof, but I do suspect her. Because she was the one cooking and cleaning and washing and taking care of the kids. We are still in love, and everything seems to be back to normal at home.”