Dear GhanaWeb,

I'm in urgent need of a remedy to a problem before it destroys my reputation and life.

At age 17, I lost my virginity to my SHS lover. We were together for five years, but things got messy along the way, leading us to part ways.

Since he left, the pages of my sexual life are not ones I would recommend people read or explore, although they're adventurous.

I haven't been in any serious relationships since the breakup, but I have been engaging in sexual affairs with any man who shows an ounce of interest in me.

We vibe, and one thing leads to another. I'm 32 years old and have been intimate with close to 20 men. I feel ashamed anytime my past comes back to haunt me.

How do I contain my sexual urges?

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