Dear GhanaWeb,

The man I dated and lived with, in the same room for three years, is not the man I am married to now. We were inseparable when we were dating.

He had a calm personality, and the reason I fell in love with him was that he always apologized whenever he made a mistake.

Our relationship was perfect until we got married. Caleb has changed within the three months since we began our marital relationship, and I don’t know the reason behind his sudden change.

Since we tied the knot, my husband has had sex with me only once, which was on our honeymoon. He hardly stays at home and chooses to spend time with his friends rather than stay at home with his wife. What hurts my soul is when he yells at me for the slightest mistake I make.

I have sat down to analyze myself to see if I am doing something contrary to being a good wife, but I could think of nothing because, for the past three months, I have been nothing but a good wife.

Before we got married, we drew up a timetable for the things we wouldn’t miss out on as a married couple, which included the number of times we would have sex, finding time in our busy schedules to spend quality time together, and always respecting each other.

The man I planned this with is gone, and I don’t know who I am married to now.

What do I do?

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