Dear GhanaWeb,

I first met Rachel during college, and we quickly became very close. We discovered that we shared similar interests, values, and a sense of humour.

It didn’t take long for us to realise that our friendship had blossomed into something deeper.

As we journeyed through our relationship, we encountered several challenges.

We came from different backgrounds, and our families had varying expectations for us.

Despite these hurdles, our love for each other kept us strong.

After graduating, we made the bold decision to move in together. It was an exciting yet nerve-wracking experience for both of us.

We were in the process of creating a life together, uncertain of what the future held.

Over time, we became even more connected. We began discussing our future, our dreams, and our goals. Both of us envisioned marriage, having children, and building a life together.

However, something shifted. Rachel began to withdraw. She grew distant, and our conversations became increasingly tense. I attempted to address my concerns with her, but she simply dismissed them.

I felt confused, hurt, and scared. I couldn’t understand what was happening or how to fix it. It felt as though I was on the verge of losing the love of my life.

One day, Rachel sat me down and explained that she needed some space. She said she was feeling overwhelmed in our relationship and needed time to sort through her feelings.

I was heartbroken. My entire world felt like it had been turned upside down. I didn’t know how to react or how to cope with my emotions.

That was six months ago. Rachel and I are still together, but things have changed. We’re taking things slowly, and she is still working through some personal issues.

Now, I find myself needing guidance. I’m torn between respecting Rachel’s need for space and actively fighting for our relationship. I love her deeply, but I also want to make sure I don’t lose myself in the process.

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MKA/EB