Dear GhanaWeb,

My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight years, which is long enough for us to start a marital journey.

I have put him on tests to know if his love is genuine, and he has proven to me that I can enjoy the rest of my life on earth with him.

I want us to get married, but he is not ready. What makes him unready is money. He is now finding his feet, but I was born into a wealthy family.

Since I was ready, I spoke to him about my intention to fund the wedding. He disapproved of the idea, but in a few days, he accepted the proposal.

I have a therapist I speak to, and before I went ahead with the wedding plans, I wanted her to know what I planned to do.

I met with her at her home, and we discussed it. I was hoping she would second my plans, but she warned me not to sponsor the wedding.

She said two-thirds of marriages where a woman loses respect are due to this situation, adding that I would regret my actions.

She made a good point, but I'm convinced Prince will never do anything to hurt me.

What should I do?

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