Dear GhanaWeb,

I hate watching porn, but my spouse finds it seductive.

Before we start having sex, he usually pressures me to watch porn, but the truth is that it doesn't turn me on at all—instead, it makes me feel sick.

I haven't been able to explain it to him clearly since I don't want him to be embarrassed by it.
I want to tackle it rationally.

What should I do?

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