Dear GhanaWeb,

Sex spices up a marriage, and men must play their cards right to make it more stimulating, but I can’t say that about my husband.

We both decided to abstain from sex during our two years of courtship because we both had our share of breakups after our ex-partners had their way with us.

We had a successful relationship and got married, but sex after marriage is not as enjoyable as I presumed it would be.

On our first night of sharing the same bed as a man and wife, my husband slept the whole night without making a call for intimacy.

I thought he was tired after the wedding because we did have a stressful day, so I didn’t regard that as a worry.

It continued for a week and was beginning to become a worry. I made the first move one night, and would you believe I did all the hard work?

He just laid down, received what I had to offer, and when he was satisfied, he went back to sleep.

I have been experiencing this for three years and always have to go on top of my husband whenever I want my husband to make love to me.

He performs his duties as a husband well, but he never prioritises our sexual lives.

Could there be something wrong with my husband?

He is a loving husband, but his bedroom duties are not pleasing enough.

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