Dear GhanaWeb,

I live with a man who rarely expresses his anger or frustrations.

We have been married for five years, and my husband has never raised his voice or yelled at me, no matter what I did wrong.

We have never fought or exchanged words in our home, and I find that scary. I offend him, and the next minute, he pampers me.

Before we got married, he was too good to be true. He exhibited a similar character, and I tried many times to do something that would trigger anger from him, but it never worked.

Whenever he returns from work and the house is kept untidy, he does not complain but rather takes it upon himself to clean.

Unlike other men who would lose it if their preferred food is not prepared, my husband will come home and eat whatever food is available to him.

His way of showing that he detests something is to wear a smile and shake his head. Growing up, I was made to believe that men like my husband are dangerous.

I have tried all means to expose my husband’s dark side, but none seem to be working.

He is a partner every lady would wish to be with, but there’s something fishy about my husband. How do I get him to reveal his dark side to me?

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