Dear GhanaWeb,

I have been married for two years and I am now fed up.

When I met my husband in 2020, he was everything I wanted; he was sweet, loving, kind, and caring.

He never said or did anything to hurt me. Even in bed, he was gentle and treated me well.

However, on our wedding night, things changed. We were having sex as usual and out of nowhere a big hot slap landed on my backside.

I was so shocked that I ran out of the room.

He apologised and said that he was into BDSM as it spices things up in the bedroom.

Even though I didn't like that, he continued the habit of spanking me aggressively during sex.

Things got worse when he came home one day with whips, handcuffs, hanging equipment, gags, etc.

I ran out of the house that night because I had endured too much.

Every morning, I wake up with bruises and other marks, I can't take the bedroom beatings anymore.

I love him but I don’t want our marriage to fall apart. How do I tell my husband that the beatings during sex are too much?