Dear GhanaWeb,

For a year, I dated a guy who gave me little attention and seldomly contacted me. Just when I was about to give up on him, he is now travelling to Ghana to visit me for the holiday season.

I've been ignoring numerous men because of my partner for a long time, so I never thought I'd start falling for another one, but there's something about this new guy I admire that sets him apart from the rest.

When I wasn't even paying attention to myself, he listened intently and extended an offer of assistance.

His kindness alone has allowed me to glimpse a side of him that I had previously overlooked.

I am trying to figure out what to do. I need a little advice.

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ADA/BOG