Dave, I’m seeing your recent post on the husband whose wife has gained weight after childbirth. It brings back memories. You see, my baby’s father left me because I gained too much weight after having our son. I really tried to lose it, really tried. Went to the gym every day, cut down meals, everything! The weight just didn’t go! The only thing I haven’t tried yet is surgery, and that’s only because I don’t have the money for it.

He made it clear my weight was a problem, he even told his family this same thing. He couldn’t be with me because I was too fat. I can confidently say that I brought a lot to the table, I supported him through some things, encouraged him and prayed for him. In the end he left me for a “skinny” girl. All I can say is he needed an excuse to leave, and that’s ok with me. I’ve stopped trying too hard to lose weight. I eat healthy to avoid any unwanted diseases. I’d rather stay single than ever try to change myself for a man: it’s not worth it. This guy wants to leave his wife, let him leave.

And oh, I forgot to add that my Ex was ugly and had a really small dick. The sex was horrible too. My friends and family even told me he was not presentable, but I always ignored them. I loved him regardless, because I wasn’t interested in looks. One day after finding out he was going around talking about my weight, I let him know that he was difficult to look at. He was hurt.”