In a rather striking unconventional posture, former Big Brother Africa star Pokello Nare says a man has failed in life if his partner does not put on weight after several years in the relationship.

The Zimbabwean entrepreneur met and fell in love with Ghanaian fashion designer Elikem Kumordzi in season 8 of the reality show in 2013.

The couple got married in June 2015. However, the union came crashing down in 2018, two years after they welcomed their first child.

Pokello, 33, fondly called the queen of swagger, shared a lovely picture of herself taking a selfie with the caption: “If you walk into a Woman’s life and she doesn’t gain weight, you have failed as a Man.”

Although she did not mention anyone in her post, many assert that her statement is a thinly-veiled reference to her ex-husband with the intention to send a message to the tailor she is doing better being single than she was actually married to him.

Reports have it that it was the pregnancy that forced Elikem to hurriedly ask for Pokello’s hand in marriage.