In diverse cultures worldwide, household chores are often gendered, with certain tasks deemed more appropriate for one gender over another. Historically, many societies have assigned specific roles and responsibilities to men and women. Men were typically seen as providers, while women were considered caretakers and homemakers.

Tasks traditionally viewed as women's work have become deeply ingrained in societal norms. The nature of laundry, for instance, makes it a more obviously feminine role, and when men go out of their way to perform it, they are often perceived as violating social norms.

Washing women's clothes may not seem like a significant issue. However, in the average traditional Ghanaian community, considerable gossip and raised eyebrows ensue when a man takes it upon himself to wash women's underwear. Various superstitions arise from this act.

In Ghanaian culture, among several others, beliefs surrounding purity and pollution, particularly concerning bodily fluids and intimate apparel, persist. The washing of women's underwear is often perceived as taboo. Women's underwear, being closely associated with menstruation and bodily discharge, is frequently seen as a source of impurity. Religions such as Christianity have contributed to the perpetuation of this belief. For men to handle such items can be seen as polluting, impure, and debasing.

I recall vividly about 4 years ago, when Grace Omaboe, popularly known as "Maame Dokonu," the famous Ghanaian actress, opined that men who wash women's underwear are cursed. You may have chanced on that publication too.

Washing women's underwear is traditionally viewed as a woman's duty, and a man performing this task is often seen as undermining his masculinity or dignity, placing him in a subservient or emasculated role. Masculinity is frequently tied to strength, dignity, and a certain distance from household chores, which are often perceived as menial.

From Middle Eastern countries to China, India, and even Japan, a highly modern and developed nation, the act of a man washing women's underwear can be seen as unusual and embarrassing. Such a man is often labeled a "simp." Even when men perform this task to assist a sick spouse or as a romantic gesture, it remains a sensitive issue.

While these cultural beliefs are deeply rooted, changing attitudes toward gender roles and equality are gradually reshaping perceptions. In many societies, the younger generation is challenging traditional norms and advocating for a more equitable division of household chores. Education and increased awareness about gender equality are essential to transforming these cultural stigmas.

As societies evolve and embrace gender equality, these perceptions are gradually changing, paving the way for a more inclusive and equitable approach to household responsibilities. The influence of more egalitarian cultures, urbanization, and globalization is contributing to a slow but steady shift in attitudes.

Men and women who challenge these norms play a vital role in promoting gender equality and dismantling stereotypes.

In conclusion, I leave you with a few rhetorical questions to ponder: If men find pleasure in removing women's underwear, why can't they wash them?

Can women also take the position that washing their spouse's or partner's underwear is debasing and shouldn't be done? Can't what is good for the goose be good for the gander?