As we approach the polls on December 7, 2024, one crucial concept that cannot be overemphasized for maintaining peace in Ghana before, during, and after the 2024 general elections is the practice of self-control.
Self-control is the ability to regulate one's emotions, thoughts, and
behaviors in the face of temptations and impulses. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), self-control is defined as the ability to be in command of one's behavior and restrain or inhibit impulses. It extends beyond merely managing anger, suppressing emotions, and controlling desires; it also involves being deliberate and mindful of our decisions and actions.
An Akan proverb aptly illustrates the concept of self-control: “Obiara w) ntasuo K)k)) w) n’anum nanso ogyae to fufuo.” This translates to “Everyone has red saliva in their mouth, but they choose to spit out the white saliva.” The wisdom in this saying, in the context of maintaining peace through self-control, is that while we all possess the potential for violence, inflicting pain, and suffering, we consciously choose the path of peace because it is the right thing to do.
The red saliva symbolizes the inherent capacity for violence, while the white saliva represents the gentleness and peace within us. As the source of both peace and violence, we must always choose peace. Ghanaians are renowned for their self-discipline and intentional commitment to being a peace-loving people, despite the sacrifices and endurance this requires.
Guns don’t start wars; people do. We all belong to one religious sect or another. Still, irrespective of one’s religious affiliations, there is a universal truth that reveals the source of conflict and violence, which requires us to exercise self-control to overcome such tendencies.
James 4:1-3 delves into the origins of conflicts and disputes, highlighting that they arise from the desires that wage war within individuals. The passage suggests that a lack of self-control and impure motives are the root causes of these conflicts, underscoring the importance of self-control in achieving peace. When you are provoked and tempted to strike a brother or sister,
remember you have the responsibility to exercise self-control and choose peace over conflict.
Yes, we can; we can overcome any form of provocation so that peace can reign in our motherland.
The election is just around the corner, and Africa and the rest of the world are watching Ghana to set a good example, as we have always done. So far, so good. We are a people of peace, a shining example on the African continent and the world. The benefits of a peaceful Ghana far outweigh that of a war-torn Ghana. Let us keep our peace. Check yourself and do the right thing!