Opinions of Saturday, 26 August 2017

Columnist: Derbie Raphael

Teenage Pregnancy, a national canker that requires collective effort

Most teens who get pregnant have parents who went through similar situations. Most teens who get pregnant have parents who went through similar situations.

I bring you greetings from my desk. I have been on break for some time now and bounced back with some more intriguing and breathtaking articles for my lovely readers.

I have decided to reinvigorate your interest of reading with the unending seemingly insurmountable teenage pregnancy that keeps rising on a daily basis. This is an issue that has been extensively discussed on different media outlets but there seem not to be any better ways of curtailing it.

Of course, I know you are not naive about the causes and effects of this canker but I will like to painstakingly and properly carry home my points of view regarding this never-ending societal canker for your perusal and suggestions. But before I do so, let me make it conspicuously clear to you that you and I can never be left out of the hook as far as teenage pregnancy continues to raise its ugly head while we are still alive.

What leads to teenage pregnancy? First, poverty is usually considered the major cause but the question one keeps asking is what about the girls who come from well-to-do families yet find themselves in such situations?

Well, continue to read as the article unfolds and clears all worries and doubts. Of course poverty is a major contributory factor to teenage pregnancy to some extent. Yes. It depends on the location you find yourself that determines the major contributory factor.

Factually speaking, we all know that girls in general have myriad of needs to meet. These include: nice dresses, pomade, sweet-scented super fabulous perfumes, soap, pads, necklace and rings, to mention a few. Most of the girls fall victim to this canker because they cannot delay their immediate gratification.

Their insatiable quest and ever-growing appetite for sexual satisfaction usually pushes them into the hands of either their male co-equals or some unscrupulous and irresponsible men who are old enough to grandfather some of them. For the sake of lust, they make the rest of their senses blind or dead so that they act without any modicum of shame. In fact, this is an act that no sane person would ever do.

Also, poor parenting is another contributory factor. The little research I did indicates that most of the girls who become pregnant in their teenage years have one of their parents who went through a similar situation.

I advanced this point because teenagers are deficient in taking mature resolute decisions hence are unable to properly care for their children. These children are left to their fate and the mercy of the environment.

I know someone will ask why some girls still become pregnant despite their parents’ eagerness to provide their every need. This question draws our attention to the almighty peer pressure. This has been a huge driving force that keeps disgracing parents after they work assiduously to meet if not all but most of their children's needs.

Ladies and gentlemen, let me place it on record that single parenthood is currently the highest contributor to teenage pregnancy in Ghana. You can choose to disagree with me but that is the reality on ground. I am of no doubt that you will unequivocally concur with me that young men between the ages of 20-45 die daily leaving their wives behind, most of whom are unemployed. How do these young widows take proper care of these children?

Last but not least, technology cannot be left out in the deliberation of this topic. Most Ghanaians largely opt for the negative aspect of every new development the white man invents. Technology is no exception. The proliferation of smart phones has made it easier for even children to watch pornographic films and other uncharitable movies. You and I know that teenagers are adventurous hence they try practicing whatever they see. This usually results to their uncontrollable growing appetite to perform the act itself.

The above notwithstanding, suffice me to state that a lot has not been done to remedy this canker. Below are some suggested solutions. Firstly, I suggest that we reduce our birth rate to three as advocated by a member in the Population Census department. Consequently we would be able to take properly care of them.

I can still recall the kind of discipline that prevailed in those days when every child was a child of any parent or elder in the community. That is why we must be each other’s keeper. I therefore think that it would be prudent if we discard some of the child's rights in order to instill discipline in the 21st century children.

Culprits who take advantage of naïve female teenagers must be properly dealt with. Corporal punishment should be meted out to these culprits more especially the mature men who shamelessly engage in this act.

I shall be back in a jiffy...