Lara Kudayisi, a Nigerian therapist, has sparked discussions about the complexities of contemporary relationships while appearing on Nedu Wazobia's Honest Brunch podcast.

In her investigation of the frequently disregarded relationships between married men and divorced women, Lara posed queries on their emotional challenges and motivations.

Do women who are divorced consider the suffering they went through as a result of their spouses cheating on them? What does it feel like to be dealing with a married man on the opposite side of the tale now?

In order to get the audience to consider the cycle of betrayal and pain that might define such circumstances, Lara asked these insightful questions.

She made the observation that divorced women, particularly single mothers, may feel unusually exposed in the dating market.

People worry that being a single mother will cause them to be ignored or subjected to harsh criticism. Society hasn't made it easy for them to find new partners," she said, highlighting the significant influence that societal expectations can have on women in this group.

Intimacy in these relationships was another topic Lara covered, providing an open analysis of why some women might find solace in married men's arms.

As we all know, intimacy is vital, and for some women, its absence is intolerable. She clarified, "This might encourage them to take actions they might not have otherwise thought of."

It was not only about assigning guilt; it was also about comprehending the emotional difficulties and stressors divorced women encounter.

In addition to urging listeners to take a more sympathetic stance, Lara motivated women to think carefully about their decisions and the possible consequences of their behavior.