Dear GhanaWeb, I love my partner so much but when have sex with her, I just can’t orgasm, however, when I masturbate, I come easily. I don't want to share this secret with any man or my partner because I worry she might freak out. How can I enjoy sex with my loving girlfriend who thinks we are in a good place? She is a good woman and I don't wish to ruin our love life. Dear GhanaWeb is a relationship, and lifestyle advice column by GhanaWeb where the GhanaWeb audience responds to your questions and problems about relationships at home, work, and beyond. Share yours with GhanaWeb via:features@ghanaweb.com. Watch the latest of our programmes below: ADA/OPD