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Why single mothers remain single - Joselyn Dumas explains

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  • Ghanabi Kofi 3 weeks ago

    If you are single with children and you have a good job you have an advantage. Many single mothers are looking for men who will take care of their children for them.
    Many of such women don't want a relationship they want a ...
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  • Mr Smith 3 weeks ago

    Kofi, I do agree with you. I have heard such nonsense from gossiping women. They are looking for "fools" to look after their "bastards". However there's a big difference between a single mother whose baby daddy is dead and on ...
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  • Jesus Loves You 3 weeks ago

    GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST NOW

    Mark 8:36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? REMEMBER YOU WILL LEAVE ALL THE MONEY, FAME, HOUSES, CAREER, SEX, REPUTATION, ETC BEHIND ...
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  • Truth Be Told 2 weeks ago

    Any wise young man would avoid marrying a single lady. Why walk into a situation with a child that is not yours, and a baby Daddy who have slept with tour wife before and knows her weaknesses and knows how to get her in bed, ...
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  • WOULD YOU GIVE YOUR SON OUT TO MARRY A THREESOME "BORN ONE" WOMAN? 3 weeks ago

    WHY WOULD ANOTHER MAN PLAY DADDY TO SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD IN A HOPELESSLY EXPENSIVE BULLSHIT NATION LIKE GHANA? THEN WHEN THE CHILD GROWS UP, S/HE'LL START ASKING MUMMY WHERE DADDY IS.

    KNOW HOW TO ZIP UP THEAT IF YOU DO N ...
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  • WOULD JOYCELYN ALLOW HER SON TO PLAY DADDY TO A BORN ONE CHILD? 3 weeks ago

    WOULD JOYCELYN DUMAS ALLOW HER SON TO PLAY DADDY TO A BORN ONE CHILD OF ANOTHER MAN?

  • seth 3 weeks ago

    Good point.

  • £EARN, TRAIN, START MAKING REAL MONEY IN 3WKS 3 weeks ago

    Character and lack of proper healing from past hurts...Do you want to make money this year or end the year poor? Even Michael Jackson sang "you gat to be starting something..." ACT NOW so you don't become a spectator this yea ...
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  • Shades 3 weeks ago

    I will be extra careful dating a single woman with children.
    I know a guy who took on a woman with two teenagers and they made his life a nightmare. The lady and her kids expected the guy to cook and clean after them and the ...
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  • Ambassador 3 weeks ago

    The problem is that most of these single mothers are ungrateful. My wife was a single mother when I met her. I took the child as my biological child, gave him the best of opportunities any other child would have wished for un ...
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  • Bobby dicicco 3 weeks ago

    At worst a single mother is promiscuous and at best she is a bad decision maker. She made two decisions, to have raw sex with someone who doesnt want her long term, allowed him to cream her up and she had the baby. Aside th ...
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  • Ayigbe julor, anago julor 3 weeks ago

    this useles twat Im suprised she hasnt opened a chop bar called asanka j for all of us to come n chop from there. go ask stray dog to marry you

  • Joy 3 weeks ago

    Hahahaha. That guy spoke stupid but now adays single parents don't treat thier kids very well to respect their step fathers. You will help a lady to care a child but all that you will see is ungrateful news from the mother a ...
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  • Koose 3 weeks ago

    Charle Joy as for today de3 you have spoken sense. This is the main problem with many single parent. They are so pissed off at the baby father that it does not matter how much you do for her and the child she will still treat ...
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  • Nana Yaw 3 weeks ago

    You and I know that you're not single, Joselyn Dumas, at least that small boy scammer who always gives u dollars they chopp u big time. Besides, u have also priced yourself from the grasp of the many young men and only want m ...
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  • Nyame 3 weeks ago

    Marrying a single mother and raising her children is like cleaning after a party you did not attend. It will be a foolish thing to do.

  • Mr Smith 3 weeks ago

    Nyame, that's not always the case. It depends IF the child(ren)'s mother will allow you to take full control as the man of the house. In many occasions men want to see successful step children unlike women who in many occasio ...
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  • Papa Grey 3 weeks ago

    Boys Kasa…looool

  • seth 3 weeks ago

    Hahahaha!!!

  • Son of sons 3 weeks ago

    This lady is not as smart as I thought. First of all, most single mothers would want a man to take full financial responsibility of their step child. That sense of entitlement is one of the major factors that push men away fr ...
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  • Jj 3 weeks ago

    Omg! Girl! To be single w a child is a blessing called peace of mind!! No demon possessed egotistical ignorant jealous person to deal with! Boyfriend? Yes enjoy! Build yourself n kids up.. The man that comes in should add to ...
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  • Koose 3 weeks ago

    Charles with these kind of statements and you wonder why you will remain single. Kosoa na tw3n for the right man whilst everybody else dey come chop and go. This is the kind of attitude and position that makes the men you are ...
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  • Nana 3 weeks ago

    @ they will blame everyone but themselves for their mess caused. Now even Adam is dragged into this. Comments like these even affirm my stands on never dating or marrying a single mother. Most of these women rejected very goo ...
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  • Ken 3 weeks ago

    Why should you date a single mother and grow step kids. Even double mothers connive with their kids against their husbands let alone single mothers. It's not wise

  • Mr Bones 3 weeks ago

    After your disgraceful escapades at la plam beach hotel ,see how far you from grace , you are nothing but a drunkard slut ;

  • Mr Bones 3 weeks ago

    A useless bleached Nigerian was fingering you in front of other patrons,at their displeasure,you were morning like a dog , we all took videos, but la plam beach hotel have a respectable manager that ensured we deleted the vid ...
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  • Koose 3 weeks ago

    Charle information wo ewiase. That really happened in front of people anaa you are making things up? As for me de3 I only know about her sex scene with Jim Ike and thought S3 that is what is keeping her single.

  • Ato 3 weeks ago

    Never take any single mother serious. They all have bad characteristics, that they will never change. They want a man to take care of their child and them, with nothing in return benefits to you the man. Only weak foolish men ...
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  • Ghana Divorce cases take years to solve 3 weeks ago

    we have lazy incompetent judges tat drag simple divorce cases for minimum 7 years because they don't do anything so why get married in Ghana

  • Masa 3 weeks ago

    Take your born one go find somewhere to sleep.
    Always looking for avenues of sponsorship from Rich Men.

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  • Nana yaw 3 weeks ago

    We are your product madam!!!!Ghana has blessed with wonderful women “some”, but as many as I can conclude are the most foolish as hell. And so you attest as to why Ghana men “some” are weak and useless. Ghanaian women ...
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  • Nsu 3 weeks ago

    It is a difficult choice really. Dating and marrying a single mother, I mean. In some situations the stepchild can establish a wonderful bond with the stepfather but as someone indicated, it does often happen if the child is ...
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  • Kwame 3 weeks ago

    It is avenue for the lady involved to be cheating with the child/children father after reconciling. It is an double edged sword.

  • King Paul, 3 weeks ago

    It takes a God fearing person to care of a single mother. Don't venture this relationship because of love or sympathy.

  • wise citizen 3 weeks ago

    you live ur nkwasia life during ur nice moments with someone who wont mind u den now u want to give that pikin to who ? just few have mistakes and unexpected stuff with some foolish men but most are at fault and shd be made t ...
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  • Chukx 3 weeks ago

    Because Anthony is the kind of man you want. He’s your spec. Turn to the man who wants you and he’ll take care of your son like his.

  • Ex-Pope 3 weeks ago

    If you're relying on your friend Anthony's reason for not wanting to marry a woman with child or children, then no one should take you seriously. That Anthony doesn't represent men. Besides, there are many women with children ...
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  • Kwabena 3 weeks ago

    Why are you all bashing single mothers? The men made them single mothers. If the men who conceived with the mothers had stayed with them then there would be no single mothers

  • John 3 weeks ago

    Some of the women attempt to trap the men with pregnancy knowing very well the man will never be with them on an ordinary day.Plus women that are divorcee have higher chance of getting men than the born ones.

  • Samuel 3 weeks ago

    Everyone has his own reasons and choices,You can marry a helper and knowledgeable lady and a person who will stay committed behind you,Honest,loving,caring lady,I can tell those who are single mother, maturity are far far bet ...
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  • Efo Koku 3 weeks ago

    Single women also don't like dating and marrying a man who already has a child or children. It's just logical to prefer starting afresh with your own biological family. The best thing is for single parent to disclose their ch ...
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  • seth 3 weeks ago

    Ghanaian men should do better. Africa in general is rather short on the knowledge of human development, and this attitude is just one of the many unfortunate consequences of that shortcominng.
    Raising an adopted kid is not ...
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  • Nuway 3 weeks ago

    To avoid hurt, every sponsorship should be regarded as Charity. Give and do not expect returns.

  • Charles Graham 3 weeks ago

    The offsprings urgently need a father figure to mentor them into responsible, emotionally stable and well adjusted adults. Don't relent in your efforts to find a suitable partner though, especially a male divorcee preferably ...
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  • Sapporo 3 weeks ago

    Borlanews for borlabirds! There is no hard-and-fast rule for why single mothers remain single or struggle to attract men.

  • BBB BBB 3 weeks ago

    Stop this witchcraft talk, alot women don't equally want to settle down with single fathers as well and those that even agree end up trying to frustrate the relationship of kids and their father for the advantage of her own k ...
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  • Kk 3 weeks ago

    If is was easy staying married those women would have stayed to take care of their kids, so if someone stays to take the nonsense and the stress that comes with marriage especially to the same man the other left behind you ca ...
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  • Corporate Shashii's 3 weeks ago

    Born one with good character n value won't have that problem,but u people been chopping anyhow fraud boys whose son do you want to come and marry you and carry curse?u see even fraud boys after payn to chop don't want to marr ...
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  • Nana 3 weeks ago

    I dated this girl and she broke up with me because I am married. She had a child and separated from the baby daddy. She now wants me as a fatherly figure for her child. I like kids, but this is difficult.

  • Gyamfi 3 weeks ago

    My lovely sister, caring for such children shouldn't be problem but just as @GHANABI KOFI said, most of such women are looking for sponsorship and not true relationships. Moreover, the attitude of most of such children toward ...
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  • Mike 3 weeks ago

    It's stressful being in relationship with a single mother. Some foolish man will be calling your partner asking about his kids. Even when you want to be intimate with your partner her baby father won't give her breathing spac ...
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  • Blaise mwinkyebakangbuobukaraa 3 weeks ago

    That is not even the only point. That point was the only issue then. Now the problem is; single mothers use the children to be siphoning money from their children fathers and current dates.
    Thirdly the insecurity in such a r ...
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    JESUS IS COMING SOON. HAVE YOU ACCEPTED HIM AS YOUR LORD AND SAVIOUR?

  • Ex-Pope 2 weeks ago

    NOTHING BUT RELIGIOUS LIES AND DECEPTIONS.

    If your religious teaching claims Jesus died on the cross to save humans from original sin, then why is he coming back? Is Jesus the same person as Arnold Schwarzenegger? Unless y ...
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